Khadija(557 — 619)

Khadija bint Khuwaylid

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SpiritualityEconomicsSocietyMiddle AgesPre-Islamic Arabia and the dawn of Islam, at the turning point between late Antiquity and the early Middle Ages (6th-7th century).

A wealthy caravan merchant from Mecca, Khadija bint Khuwaylid was the first wife of the prophet Muhammad and the very first person to embrace Islam. Her fortune and moral support were decisive in the early days of his preaching.

Frequently asked questions

The key point to remember is that Khadija bint Khuwaylid is not merely the first wife of Muhammad: she is the very first person to have believed in his message, even before the preaching became public. Born around 557 in Mecca, she ran a thriving caravan trading business, which enabled her to provide crucial financial support to early Islam. Her unwavering faith and moral comfort were decisive in the most difficult moments, such as during the first revelation in the Cave of Hira in 610. To understand this, one must remember that at that time, embracing a new religion was a risky act, and her support gave Muhammad the strength to continue.

Key Facts

  • Born around 555 in Mecca, into the Banu Asad clan of the Quraysh tribe
  • A wealthy widow running a caravan trade, she hired Muhammad to manage her business affairs around 595
  • She married Muhammad around 595, giving him both material and emotional stability
  • Around 610, after the first Revelation, she was the first person to acknowledge Muhammad's mission and convert to Islam
  • Died in 619, the “year of sorrow” (ʿām al-ḥuzn), shortly before the Hijra

Works & Achievements

A Thriving Caravan Business (before 595)

Khadija built one of the most prosperous trading enterprises in Mecca, employing men to lead her caravans.

First Profession of Faith in Islam (610)

According to tradition, she was the very first person to believe in Muhammad's message and to comfort him.

Financial Support of the Preaching (610-619)

Her fortune allowed the first Muslims to survive in the face of the Quraysh's hostility and throughout the boycott.

Mother of Fatima and of the Prophet's Lineage (around 605-609)

Through her daughter Fatima, Khadija is the origin of the Ahl al-Bayt lineage, venerated by Muslims.

The Gift of Zayd ibn Haritha (around 595)

She gave this slave to Muhammad, who freed him and treated him like a son — a defining gesture of Islam's early days.

Standing by the Clan During the Boycott (616-619)

She spent her last possessions to help the Banu Hashim, besieged in the ravine of Abu Talib.

Anecdotes

A prosperous businesswoman of Mecca, Khadija employed men to lead her caravans. Impressed by Muhammad's honesty when he returned from a trading journey to Syria, it was she who had marriage proposed to him through her friend Nafisa. She was about forty years old, he twenty-five.

When Muhammad came down trembling from the cave of Hira after his first vision, he asked to be wrapped in a cloak. Khadija reassured him with these famous words: “Never will God bring you to disgrace, for you honor the ties of kinship and you help the destitute.” She was thus his very first supporter.

Islamic tradition regards Khadija as the very first person to embrace Islam: no man, no woman, no child is said to have believed before her. For this she is called Khadija al-Kubra, “Khadija the Great.”

Anxious, Khadija took her husband to her own cousin Waraqa ibn Nawfal, an aged scholar who had become a Christian and who read the Scriptures. In Muhammad's account Waraqa recognized the coming of a great messenger and the warning of trials to come.

The year 619 has remained in Muslim memory as “the year of sorrow” (ʿām al-ḥuzn): it was then that Khadija died, shortly after Abu Talib, the Prophet's protective uncle. Just before, during the boycott imposed on the Banu Hashim clan, she had spent her entire fortune to support her people despite the hunger.

Primary Sources

Sahih al-Bukhari, “The Beginning of Revelation” (Bad' al-Wahy) (Refers to the year 610; collection compiled in the 9th century)
“No, by God! God will never disgrace you. You keep the ties of kinship, you bear the burden of the weak, you give to the poor, you honor the guest, and you help those struck by misfortune.”
Sahih al-Bukhari, Merits of the Companions (reported from Aisha) (9th century (words attributed to the angel Gabriel))
“O Messenger of God, here comes Khadija... convey to her the greeting of her Lord and give her the good news of a dwelling in Paradise made of pearls, where there will be neither noise nor weariness.”
Ibn Hisham, Sira (biography of the Prophet, after Ibn Ishaq) (8th-9th century (recounts the years around 610))
“Khadija believed in him and bore witness to the truth of what came to him from God; thus God lightened for His Prophet the weight of his trial.”
Musnad of Ahmad ibn Hanbal (saying of the Prophet, reported from Aisha) (9th century)
“She believed in me when people denied me, she supported me with her wealth when people deprived me.”

Key Places

Mecca

Merchant city of Arabia where Khadija was born, lived, ran her trade and died, near the sanctuary of the Kaaba.

Cave of Hira (Mount al-Nour)

Cavity in the mountain near Mecca where Muhammad received the first revelation, which Khadija welcomed with faith.

Ravine of Abu Talib (Shiʿb Abi Talib)

Valley in Mecca where the Banu Hashim were confined during the boycott; there Khadija shared in the hardships.

Bosra (Syria)

Great market of Syria, the terminus of Khadija's trade caravans, where Muhammad traveled on her behalf.

Jannat al-Muʿalla Cemetery (Mecca)

Burial place of Khadija in 619, venerated by believers as a memorial.

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