Nora Ephron(1941 — 2012)
Nora Ephron
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Nora Ephron (1941-2012) was an American journalist, screenwriter, director, and novelist. A major figure in Hollywood romantic comedy, she wrote and directed films that became cult classics, such as When Harry Met Sally and Sleepless in Seattle.
Frequently asked questions
Famous Quotes
« Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim.»
Key Facts
- Born on May 19, 1941, in New York, into a family of screenwriters
- Screenwriter of When Harry Met Sally (1989), nominated for an Oscar
- Screenwriter and director of Sleepless in Seattle (1993)
- Directed You've Got Mail (1998) and then Julie & Julia (2009), her final film, inspired by the memoirs of Julia Child
- Died on June 26, 2012, in New York
Works & Achievements
A drama about a nuclear-industry whistleblower that earned her a first Academy Award nomination for Best Screenplay.
An autobiographical account of her divorce, turned into a film in 1986; it shows off her gift for turning pain into comedy.
A cult romantic comedy about whether men and women can be friends, a genre model for a whole generation.
An international hit that confirmed Ephron as a director in her own right.
A pioneering comedy about falling in love by e-mail, capturing the spirit of the early Internet.
A best-selling, humor-filled collection about aging as a woman.
Her final film, a tribute to the cook Julia Child, starring Meryl Streep.
Anecdotes
Before becoming a filmmaker, Nora Ephron was a journalist. As a young graduate, she landed a job at Newsweek magazine, but only as a “mail girl”, because at the time women were not allowed to become writers: this sexism would later fuel her feminist commitment.
The famous fake orgasm scene in a restaurant in “When Harry Met Sally” ends with the line “I'll have what she's having”. This now-iconic phrase was delivered by Estelle Reiner, the mother of director Rob Reiner, and the idea for the scene reportedly came from actress Meg Ryan herself.
The screenplay for the film “Ace in the Hole”... no: Nora Ephron drew her novel “Heartburn” from her own divorce from journalist Carl Bernstein, one of the reporters who broke the Watergate story. She turned her personal pain into comedy, true to the motto she inherited from her mother: “Everything is copy”.
Her parents, Henry and Phoebe Ephron, were themselves Hollywood screenwriters. As a teenager, Nora wrote them letters from summer camp: her parents drew on them for a play and a film, “Take Her, She's Mine”, introducing the young girl to the idea that everyday life could nourish fiction.
Nora Ephron hid her leukemia from almost everyone around her for six years. Many friends and collaborators only learned of her illness when her death was announced in 2012, at age 71, so determined was she to keep working and living normally.
Primary Sources
Our neck betrays us. Our neck is a vault. Our neck reveals our age as surely as a tree ring.
Whatever you choose, however many roads you take, please don't whine too much. Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim.
Vish, my shrink, always says that people who want to make others happy end up making themselves miserable.
For years, I felt like a shy guest standing at the edge of a party that everyone seemed to be enjoying except me.
Key Places
Her birthplace and lifelong home base. Manhattan, its apartments and restaurants form the recurring backdrop of her films.
The Los Angeles neighborhood where she grew up after her screenwriter parents moved to Hollywood.
The women's college where she earned her degree in 1962 and delivered a famous commencement address in 1996.
The iconic Lower East Side restaurant where the famous scene from "When Harry Met Sally" was filmed.
The city that gives "Sleepless in Seattle" its title, the setting of one of her most famous romantic comedies.






