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Threshold Sweet (dish distributed to sweeten the memory of the deceased)

Date Hays of Passage

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A dense, melt-in-the-mouth paste of pitted dates kneaded with clarified butter, breadcrumbs, and a little fresh cheese, rolled into small balls perfumed with cinnamon. Sweet, rich, comforting—the sweetness shared when death has struck.

Threshold Sweet (dish distributed to sweeten the memory of the deceased)

A dense, melt-in-the-mouth paste of pitted dates kneaded with clarified butter, breadcrumbs, and a little fresh cheese, rolled into small balls perfumed with cinnamon. Sweet, rich, comforting—the sweetness shared when death has struck.

See the date: I place it on the lips of the newborn child, and I find it again on the table of those who weep for the deceased—for the threshold of life and that of death are the same door, and I stand on both sides. In Baghdad, pious hands kneaded these dates with melted butter and crumbled bread, rolled them into balls under my gaze, and gave them to the poor in the name of the one I had taken. Taste this sweetness, mortal: it is offered so that my passing may be less bitter.
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Ingredients
  • Ripe pitted datestwo large handfuls (sweet base of the threshold)
  • Clarified butter (samn)a good piece, melted (fat binder)
  • Dried and crushed breadcrumbs (fatit)a handful (texture)
  • Fresh curd cheesea spoonful (softness)
  • Cinnamona pinch (flavor)
How it was made : Hays appears in al-Warraq's Kitab al-Tabikh (Baghdad, 10th century), a collection of caliphal cuisine: dates kneaded with butter, breadcrumbs (fatit), and sometimes cheese or almonds. It was a dish for great occasions, including funerary commemorations, where distributing sweets as alms (sadaqa) in the name of the deceased was a common practice.
Sources : al-Warraq, Kitab al-Tabikh (Baghdad, 10th century) · Charles Perry (trans.), Annals of the Caliphs' Kitchens (2007) · Maxime Rodinson, Recherches sur les documents arabes relatifs à la cuisine (1949)